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Wednesday, December 27, 2006

To be treated like a PRINCESS




Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
I wrote sth, and then I started thinking of you ... and I thought you would care to read it !!!!
PINK says:
yes i would

Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
its my definition, of what does it mean to treat your woman like a Princess.....
PINK says:
aha
Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
cuz most women want to be tearted as one .. They tell guys, Treat me like a Princess
Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
now Guys, about 99.9% dont know what that TRUELY means .....
or how to do it .

Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
in fact, 90% of Women dont even know what does that Precisly means either
so I was thinkign of it.,.. and of the women I feel they Deserve to be Treated in such fashion, and what it would mean to be terated in such fashion and I came up with the following ,.,,

Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
1ft of all u must respect her brains before her beauty
Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
then appreciate both equally ,.
Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
then teart her with all gentle, care, and delicacy

Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
and be the shoulder she needs to rely on to support her, the chest to lie her head on when she is pursuing comfort
the open arms she needs when she is lookig for warmth, and the heart she finds her place and love in
Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
yet, be the friend she needs to discuss her problems, interests and issues with.........
Dr.Mjalli 2 be SOON!!!! says:
and Finally give her space and time when she needs to .... and dont let her feel that u r doing that .

To have these words said by a guy.... it feels a little bit weird as guys are not as emotional as girls... WoooOoooW... this is new and cool!

27 Comments:

  • At December 27, 2006 , Anonymous Qwaider قويدر said...

    I WAS going to comment, then I hit the "foot in mouth" button.... Thank god :)
    Yes yes ... you and every lady out there deserves to be treated like a pricess :)
    LOL

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Anonymous Nas said...

    lol i read something very much like this in one of those email forwards :-D

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Blogger Nizar Selander said...

    Are you sure that it was Dr.Mjalli on the other side not sombody else ? :P

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Blogger SUS said...

    This is what i call a perfect guy... but do u think there r guys who treat women in such a way (i.e a perfect guy)???!!

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    Qwaider... you don't have to hit the "foot in mouth" button to stop yourself from commenting... you can comment and I have the choice not to publish :D good idea.. na?

    nas... we always read such things in forward e-mails but the question is are you capable of writing such a thing!?!

    Nizar... Oh and why would I change the name???

    Sus... perfect guys don't really exist,,, or at least let's say not all the time... he might be perfect for a while and then changes when he's down etc.. we're all humans... no one is perfect!

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Anonymous Hani said...

    Such guys are hardly exist, I think, but to find a woman who appreciate being treated like this is hard as well… don’t you think?!

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Anonymous kinzi said...

    Dima, settle for nothing less than a man who adores you. A relationship built on mutual love and respect will keep the love-struck prince acting like one even when he is middle-aged.

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Anonymous Qwaider قويدر said...

    LOL, some girls are just so gullible! dakheel allah! It's so damn easy for ANYONE to copy and paste the perfect guy!
    Hell someone can go as far as describing EVERYTHING that he is not and he would sound like prince charming.
    Fact is, no one is perfect, there is no such a thing as the "perfect guy" or the "perfect girl" or someone who deserves to be treated like a prince or a queen. It's a myth... day dreams .... wishful thinking

    If you count the number of women promised to be treated as queens and ended up ... well you know... you'd know :)

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Blogger Lilly said...

    cool and sweet :)

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Anonymous Constant Stranger (in Amman) said...

    Sorry to burst the bubble, but being a "Constant bearer of burst the bubble news", i must say that i read an chain e mail that popped on my e mail with same text body, with less spelling typo’s, and maybe slightly varied words.... As Nas said.
    Ill post it if i didnt delete it (as usual for chain mails). But Writing such words... is possible, been done before.
    So, truth is, Mr..Dr... didn't come up with it :) and its not a genuine thought... But its nice and has truth for most of it, regarding the treatment of women, or better half :). But respect and dignity are two way streets, if you know what i mean. Thought i should say this :)

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Blogger Averroes said...

    Fascinating how topics of Human ineraction attract attention, whats even more fascinating the surprise..or disbelief at times that men who would treat ladies as princesses do actually exist, they do..but my input in this is both short and simple:
    Women Cannot complain about men until they start getting better taste in them!
    so basically..they're out there..Princes! and who better to treat a woman like a princess than a prince!

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    Hani... well i think 'il zayed akhou il na'es' LOL... if it's so good then it'd be dull,,, there have to be small cute little problems to spice the relationship up ;)

    kinzi... those are strong nice words... thanks for the advice :$ im blushing now!

    Qwaider قويدر ... I didn't say there's such a thing?!! Did I?

    this is what i wrote 'Sus... perfect guys don't really exist,,, or at least let's say not all the time... he might be perfect for a while and then changes when he's down etc.. we're all humans... no one is perfect!
    '


    It's just a thought for God's sake... nice words!!!! Plus there's no harm in dreaming... 3aib willa 7aram???!!!


    lilly.. yeah i thought so too :D

    Constant Stranger (in Amman)... it's something someone WROTE and liked to share.. it's a thought... it's not about being genuine or not... it's not about being realistic.. it's just a THOUGHT!

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    Averroes... such topics ALWAYS attract attention and the reason for that i believe is because each and everyone has his/her own view / opinion or thought regarding it depending on past experiences... beliefs or other things that affect the way you look at such issues...

     
  • At December 27, 2006 , Blogger Averroes said...

    Hence my fascination..complexity in simplicity

     
  • At December 28, 2006 , Anonymous Nas said...

    Dima: it is about being genuine...because if you're looking for 'the real thing' then you're looking for someone who is original. real = genuine = original.

    in other words, you're looking for the prose...what this person and such chain mails have to offer is merely poetry.

    just a thought :-)

     
  • At December 28, 2006 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    nas... im not looking for anything or anyone right now :$ hahahaha

    but yeah.. it's just a THOUGHT ;)

     
  • At December 28, 2006 , Anonymous Iman said...

    words are nothing but mere words -- especially sweet, romantic words...and don't mean anything what-so-ever if they don't materialize into action...

    and yeah, while it's not bad to dream...it's even better to be more realistic!

     
  • At December 28, 2006 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    it's better to be realistic... I agree! But (for me) not on my blog... it's the only place where I can let my imagination free without anyone judging me.. cause it's MINE :)

     
  • At December 28, 2006 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    A guy can say he loves a woman, but its only true when he makes her feel that she is a better person whenever she is with him.

    When she feels that her imperfections are cherished and enjoyed by him, that she doesnt think they are flaws anymore.

    When she can uncover all her ugly sides and still be the most beautiful being in his eyes spiritually as well as physically.

    It is a true love only when all this happens without exerting any effort... when it comes naturally and honestly.

     
  • At December 29, 2006 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    Im glad you kept your Anonymousity.... as you might be accused of copying and pasting a forwarded chain e-mail ;)

    But anyway... yeah you're right! it is to be yourself and feel comfortable and happy about it... to take down all the masks... and just be yourself... to be with someone who accept you as you are without the need for changing ANYTHING... to love you as a 'PACKAGE'

     
  • At December 29, 2006 , Blogger manal yusuf said...

    u have been tagged, check my blog ;)

     
  • At December 29, 2006 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    manal yusuf.. oh it's the everyone tag :D but im afraid im not into music at all... :S :$ :$

     
  • At December 30, 2006 , Blogger Average-Moh said...

    wow, 22 comments , ok , mr. doc. said : you must respect her for her brains before her beauty and appreciate both equally .

    i just loved that line , i really did , and he's sooooo true , but you just have to find a girl with a brain first , and then you can treat her like a princess .

     
  • At December 30, 2006 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    Average-Moh.. does this mean girls always have no brains???!!! Cause if this is the case then watch out.. you're making lots of us ANGRY !!!

     
  • At January 17, 2007 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    hi there,
    a good friend of mine told me to read this, so I gave myself the green light to intrude and to comment...

    I've been in love once before, and friends used to call it -in my case- "marad naqs el karameh el moktasabeh", I used to pass over everything for her, even my very own self, my ideologies, my interest, my everything, hence the name (marad naqs el karameh el moktasabeh)... looking back at it, I think it was an a obsession, obsession is the kind of love that is not controlled by the harness of sanity...

    years later I fell in love again, but this time it's different, I know that loving her doesn't change the rights and wrongs, doesn't make her mistakes right, doesn't make her a Goddess... it only gives her an advantage...

    finally, I believe every girl the one cares about should be treated like a princess, whether she was a mother, a sister, a friend, or a beloved ones, but that doesnt mean accepting all what she says, or considering all what she says/does is right, the fact that she "makes you wanna be a better man" doesnt mean a man who likes the same songs too :)

     
  • At January 17, 2007 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    Anonymous... no one said that love/ or treating a girl like a princess means to reach a 'naqs il mana3a il muktasabeh' obsession!

    if things got to this degree with you then it might be your fault.. don't you think so?

    Love should never change the wrong to right.. and being a better man doesn't necessarily mean to be what she wants you to be!

    Anyway, good luck with the new girl... a person always learn from his mistakes!

     
  • At January 18, 2007 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I didn't say treating one's girl like a princess means losing dignity, what I was tryin to say is that if the guy really loves the girl he will naturally treat her like a princess, or even better, without havin to read it on someone's blog or in a forward, it goes natuarally...

    it definitely was my mistake back then, and I definitely learned from it...

    one last point I forgot to say earlier, the definition of princess defers from one girl to another, to some girls -shallow ones- a guy who worships her beauty is the one, rather thsn he who respects who she is...

     

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