Where to start!?!
Have you ever known the feeling of having so many things to do but not knowing from where to start!?!? Im going through this phase where I just don't know from where to start.. 
and now I have a ve
ry famous sentence that I keep saying 'since all brides always get so busy in the final weeks -whether they started with planning for things earlier or they don't- i'd rather leave it all to the end !!!
I know exactly what I need to do, and I know how much time there's left.. yet i keep thinking it's still too early! i'll do it later!! And I know for a fact that I'll reach this point where there will be no later and I'll start to regret it, yet with all this im still in the same place!... the more I postpone the more I feel im behind but this doesn't make me move any further...
I am on a sick leave yet Im not using this time to get things done.. I've never been this lazy! It's just the thought that there are plenty of things to do freaks me out.. !!! I need a miracle I guess to finish them all by the end of this month.. time flies and I thought I will get it all done and have extra time to relax... it seems I'll just have to hope all things will be done and I'll give up on the thought of the extra time to relax... !
and now I have a ve
ry famous sentence that I keep saying 'since all brides always get so busy in the final weeks -whether they started with planning for things earlier or they don't- i'd rather leave it all to the end !!!I know exactly what I need to do, and I know how much time there's left.. yet i keep thinking it's still too early! i'll do it later!! And I know for a fact that I'll reach this point where there will be no later and I'll start to regret it, yet with all this im still in the same place!... the more I postpone the more I feel im behind but this doesn't make me move any further...
I am on a sick leave yet Im not using this time to get things done.. I've never been this lazy! It's just the thought that there are plenty of things to do freaks me out.. !!! I need a miracle I guess to finish them all by the end of this month.. time flies and I thought I will get it all done and have extra time to relax... it seems I'll just have to hope all things will be done and I'll give up on the thought of the extra time to relax... !
posted by and life goes on... @ 8:33:00 PM
16 Comments:
At June 06, 2007 ,
Sam said...
yup I know za feeling!! I get that sometimes..u have a million things to do, u think there is plenty of time left before you know it time is squishes and u have to hurry and get things done...just like losing weight..i had all winter to clean up my act and exercise and stop with the cheesecake already..but nooo now it is june and it take a miracle for me to lose those 8lb by august!
At June 06, 2007 ,
Anonymous said...
Well, like I say. There is too much to do and too little time to get it done! ..
What you could do is write down a list of priorities. Or what it most important or time consuming from top to bottom. This way you can go through the list and check off what was completed. You need a well organized calendar.. :D
At June 06, 2007 ,
Unknown said...
No matter how busy you are Dima, my advice for you is to keep yrself in charge! I mean don't rely on anyone COMPLETELY to do the final touches for you...I wish you the best of luck! Don't worry too much, worry a lil bit;) It'll all be great I'm sure:)
At June 06, 2007 ,
Mais said...
lol@ the doodeh in ur post :p (it's so cute :D)
well, aham shee not to panic i guess...try to write a list -at least- of the things that u still need to do...and try to keep the last 2 days for to pamper yourself before the big day :D
best of luck inshallah
At June 06, 2007 ,
Anonymous said...
The worst thing in the world is being Lazy!!
cant someone help you with the stuff u have to do?
if not, u have to finish them one by one. :>
At June 07, 2007 ,
Anonymous said...
You know when I feel overwhelmed with many things to do and don't know where to start, I write everything on a list,It gives me a sense of being organized and you can scratch them one by one and you will feel great..
The last ten days before your big day have to be totally free from any worries and things to do.. Just rest and relax :)
At June 08, 2007 ,
di.di said...
same here.. so many thing so lil time... but srill today i feel like doing nothing... i dont know why.. but i think bcoz today's friday.... :P
May God bless me!!
At June 10, 2007 ,
and life goes on... said...
sam... haha, though with losing weight it's harder! The more you wait the more you gain.. :)
Rebellious Arab Girl.. guess what?! I did it on two sep. papers. One as a list for things to do, and the other one as a schedule for appointments. And it helps a lot!!! At least now im not confused anymore :D and the more I do the better I feel, and the shorter my list becomes.. it's just great!
At June 10, 2007 ,
and life goes on... said...
nido.. Im super busy!! :$ I don't rely on anyone at all.. that's why I said NO to wedding planners. Im doing everything by myself.. and there are still plenty of things to do :$
Oriental Arabesque.. it is!! Isn't it :D it's like im hiding.. the more I think of the things I need to get done with the more I want to hide.. lol
I hope I'll be able to get more than two days to pamper myself.. :$ a week inshalla.. :)
At June 10, 2007 ,
and life goes on... said...
Maher.. Im not lazy :$ never have been lazy.. it's just that sometimes I panic so I keep postponing things.. ! that's all :)
Noura.. your advice was great and helpful! I have my own list now and it just feels great.. at least now I know what I need to do and how long would each task require.. im on the very right track I guess ;)
Drama Div@.. if you start your day active you end it active, if you start your friday feeling lazy then nothing would change.. you'd end up home! Hope this weekend was full of action and fun.. :)
At June 10, 2007 ,
Anonymous said...
One good advice Dima..
leave 2 or 3 days "off" before the wedding...you need to look fresh and relax on your day.
At June 10, 2007 ,
and life goes on... said...
Gardenia.. oh yeaaaaah!!! me and the grooooooom!!! haha :)
At June 10, 2007 ,
Life said...
When I started reading I was like.. oh yeah... I SURE DO KNOW THE FEELING SISTER!! :)
bas Akeed I am busy with a new Job.. so your tasks are completly different.. but what Noura said is right.. I like lists.. they help .. I am sure you can make it.. just try to enjoy it.. :)
At June 11, 2007 ,
and life goes on... said...
Life ... thank you dear! now it's getting better.. il 7amdilla!
I wasn't feeling well as i was sick and in bed.. but now il 7amdilla, im much better!.. PLUS Im using a LIST.. it's a long one, but still it helps a lot :$ :)_
At June 11, 2007 ,
Dino$ said...
im also getting married soon.. at first i was so busy planning that i hardly focused on anything or anyone around me.. that i hardly spent time with my family... then my dad well.. had a stroke as you know... and now planning is just not that same.. im planning but im not obsessing about things... and im actually feeling more relaxed cause when you realize what matters the most is not the flower arrangement.. its not anything you can buy or plan for.. its being with the person you love..& sharing this moment with the people you love...
i wish you all the best.. and relax... its just one night.. it will pass and you will look gorgeous :) sleep well the night b4 and don't let anything or anyone take the your happiness away :)
At June 11, 2007 ,
and life goes on... said...
Islamic ChoCoHoLic ... inshalla ya rab iy'oum bil salameh and for you to have the nicest wedding ;)
Thank you.. It's getting easier as Im having a list of things that should be done in the next two weeks maximum.. and then my hubby is coming so I need to get over with things before his arrival :$ hopefully we'll have time to relax and all before the big day :D
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