Simply ME...

A star or a rainy cloud,,, realistic or a dreamer,,, tough or emotional,,, a butterfly or a dolphin,,, it is all about me reflecting the transparent me!

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

busy?? no.. SUPER BUSY!

The last couple of weeks taught me the real meaning of the word 'BUSY'. It made me realise that all the previous times when I thought I was busy... that was NOTHING compared to what I've been through recently!

I had many of the crazy moments that I won't forget, but now I know for a fact that planning a wedding is a hard- tough task! needs lots of time and efforts! Especially when it's done alone.. from A-Z
But Im just one of the people who wants to be part of the whole thing, as I thought this way I'd enjoy it even more.. I even went with a friend to help him in picking up a suit,, I went with cousins to shop for their dresses too ! And as much as it was tiring,, as much as I have enjoyed it all.. every single minute.. that was definitely another part that will be remembered and treasured.

I believe that what's so stressing about all this mess is dealing with people and trying to make them understand what's in your mind and do it exactly the way you want.
I had some funny incidents in the past couple of days, things that caused me so much tension but will certainly make me laugh when the wedding is over..
It seems that doing a summerish wedding is so much harder than any other time, as people tend to have a busy schedule and won't find any time to give you.. even if you're a bride, this still doesn't mean that you should have a priority!!
As I decided to get done with the final touches before my hubby's arrival- I called the photographer two days ago, telling him that I will pass over etc, and his reply was 'WHY'! just like that.. WHY! I said well maybe because we still didn't talk about anything yet and that I'd like to do the payment etc.. plus, which is more important, the wedding will be next week! All of this didn't seem to make a difference.. so he said.. well it's still too early, you see- in a week people can get to the states and return back!!!

I meet with the florist a week before the wedding and he asks 'will your wedding be in ***** hotel?'.. I was too shocked to answer!!! one week before the wedding and he still doesn't seem to get the wedding place right!

I insisted on being the one who drops the invitation cards as I wanted to be part of everything and to experience all.. The feedbacks that I got after this made me so happy,, flying, jumping! they all said one word.. had the same wonderful reaction 'ELEGANT'- this is what I kept hearing.
Now, I hope that next monday will be all that I wanted and dreamt of .. a reward for my efforts.. I hope it will be a day to remember.. I hope friends (especially those who are coming from all over the world just for the occasion) to enjoy it to the max and feel that it's worth all the long flying hours .. I hope it will be a day that will be engraved in the minds forever.. my 9th of July 2007!

13 Comments:

  • At July 04, 2007 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    wish u lots of joy and happiness dear with ur hubby to be, family,friends and yes loved ones too...
    what u wrote was so touchy!!
    i would like to give my sincere wishes for you both to have a wonderful, joyful and great wedding party since u worked really hard on it. and most of all inshalla u will be granted a great life full of joy, happiness, health and excitement with ur husband!!!
    tethanooo inshalla el 3omor kuloh!!!
    ps. i have been reading ur blog for a while but this time i wanted to comment, since i was really touched!
    urs
    afaf

     
  • At July 04, 2007 , Anonymous Rebellious Arab Girl said...

    awwwwwwwwwwwwww.. I wish I can come just to see all the efforts!! From the way you described it, it must be such a gorgeous elegant wedding! I can't wait to see pics!! hehehehe.. :p

     
  • At July 04, 2007 , Blogger Tamara said...

    Dima

    I'm sure your night will be amazing,and even better than your exations : )

    We want to see photos !

     
  • At July 04, 2007 , Anonymous Maioush said...

    Inshalla everybody will enjoy it to the max, alf laf alf mabrook ya 3aroosetna el 7elweh, I’m sure everything will be great, you’ll look great, the wedding inshala will be great, alla ya3teeki alf 3afyeh, I’ve been around brides so many times, I know how busy you are right now, alf mabrook 7abeebti :)

     
  • At July 04, 2007 , Blogger PŕōuđPāŀĩ said...

    damdoum: i was visiting a couple yesterday coz they had their first baby girl, they're pretty close friends of mine and also got married on the 9th of july :D 3u2balek in a couple of years ykun 3andek bannouteh amoura with ur strong presence and level headedness! Bless!

    hope all goes gr8 and even better than u planned, but most importantly, have all the fun in the world and dance ur shoes off!! :yai: tet-hannou ya rab w all the best bannout :hug:

     
  • At July 04, 2007 , Anonymous Linda said...

    I wish i can share with you your special day :( I wish i can see you 2o enti 3aroos :(I feel so sorry that i cant make it :( what i can do is to pray to GOD to make all your coming days full of happiness & joys, u really desereve the best :x

     
  • At July 05, 2007 , Blogger Sam said...

    o it is so close!! mabrook! im sure it will turn out great..maybe even better than you expected...it is fun to do all these things..i also wanted to do everything by myself for my wedding..my parents were annoyed..bas hey it was my wedding...and it turned out even better than i expected alhamodullah:) i cant wait to see the pictures...do not take forever to post about it!:)

     
  • At July 05, 2007 , Blogger Oriental Arabesque said...

    wow, i'm so excited for you wallah..hope everything will turn the way you want and even better :)

    best wishes, and inshallah what's coming after the wedding party will be much much nicer..inshallah it will be a whole life full of happiness next to ur hubby and new family

    keep us posted please :)

     
  • At July 05, 2007 , Blogger Noura said...

    Alf mabrook.. May all your dreams come true.. Next time you post your blog title should change from "simply me" to "simply us" :D
    Be happy :)

     
  • At July 09, 2007 , Anonymous Jason said...

    Hi Dima: I've been reading ur blog for awhile and this is my first comment. By the time u read this you will probably be married, so congragulations and best wishes.

     
  • At July 17, 2007 , Anonymous kinzi said...

    Hi Dima!! Thanks for the little photo on your page, BEAUTIFUL!!

     
  • At July 24, 2007 , Blogger Drama Div@ said...

    Many congratulations on your wedding.

     
  • At July 31, 2007 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    Thank you for all your sweet comments.. having such nice words to read before the big day was something so precious and will be treasured forever!

     

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