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Thursday, November 01, 2007

The last thing I wanted

I never imagined that it will be the same here..
or a little bit worse! I thought this is one thing I don't have to worry about...
.. I guess I was wrong!

I have never expected that guys here are RUDE! What happens is that It's just the same.. even if in a different continent.. nothing would change, really!

Cars still stop, guys would still open the windows and try to open a conversation.. guys would even come close and say some words in your ear 'hey .. how are you doing'.. 'beautiful'... 'hello...'!!!
They would still WHISTLE!! imagine .. whistle!!!!

I have never thought that I might think about worrying to walk alone after 8 ... here!!!!
I would still have to cross the road and walk on the empty side..

No matter how much you try to avoid this shit.. it would still happen.. no matter where you are!!! And this is one thing that freaked me out when I got here!
So disappointing... and SCARY!

15 Comments:

  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger nido said...

    wow!! This is surprising!! I haven't seen this yet over here...It must be really annoying!!

    Be carefull Dima, and try to find someone to walk with when it's late...
    They whistel too?!?! ma2saaah...

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger Maioush said...

    Poor Dima!!! yeeeeeeeeee that's bad, even there??? i mean that's weird, just take care of yourself dear, el nawar nawar wean ma kan :)

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger Sam said...

    men will be men...sleazbags are everywhere...for me in amman it is alot more...it was not too bad in canada...

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger asoom said...

    perverted males is a universal trend!

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    nido.. yeah my sister told me the same thing! when she was in the states non of this was happening!!

    maioush.. I guess so :S

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    sam.. maybe in Amman I felt it less because I rarely walked anywhere.. and the funny thing is that this happens here on the way to university.. or inside uni!!!!

    asoom.. :D

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Anonymous secratea said...

    loooooooool @ "el nawar nawar wean ma kan :)" AND "perverted males is a universal trend!"... OH MY GOD GIRLS, i am laughing hard, hahahaahha

    Ok, well, Dima as the girls said, deeri balik 3ala 7alik!

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger Qabbani said...

    whistle!

    ana fakrtha stopped zaman

    watch out lady .. some really ENJOY it ,

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger Marvin the Martian said...

    That is so sad. On behalf of thinking males everywhere, I apologize. No one, man or woman, should have to put up with harassment like that. It shakes whatever faith one might have in the human race, doesn't it?

    Carry a weapon, and hope that you don't have to use it...

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger PŕōuđPāŀĩ said...

    be very careful, at least our guys dont come close or feel free to grope.. yes some do bas mish bil nesbeh illi 3and il ajaneb rude guys.

    allah ye7meeki w ye7meena :)

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger Rebellious Arab Girl said...

    Wow.. I guess guys will be guys ANYWHERE and EVERYWHERE.. So disappointing..

    Tsk Tsk.. :(

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    secratea.. yeah it was funny at the begging but now im getting really annoyed!

    Qabbani.. Exactly!!!! WHISTLE!! can you imagine!!!!

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    Marvin the Martian .. It got on my nerves just yesterday when I wanted to spend a couple of hours in the library studying, but then I just changed my mind when I thought It will get dark and I don't want to go through such things.. it's soooo disappointing..REALLY, to be here and still have to go through this!

     
  • At November 01, 2007 , Blogger and life goes on... said...

    PŕōuđPāŀĩ .. YEAH! 'The coming close ' thing is really new to me.. and I will have to learn to say some words to make them *$^$%#@$% i guess.. it doesn't work to keep walking and ignore, here.. ! GOD!

    Rebellious Arab Girl.. yeah! it's a fact!!! :D

     
  • At November 09, 2007 , Blogger ammaro.com said...

    hehe, unfortunately guys will be guys wherever you go, and the more attractive you are, the more you get hassled.

    best solution is to go outside with a machine gun or something. that should get them off your back

     

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